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Real Coaching. Real Results.

She had the career. She wanted the family. She was trying to time something that can't be timed.

By Heidi Klotz, Goal-Centric Coach | Fractional CHRO

Published April 16, 2026

My client was a mid-level manager in tech, gaining real traction, and planning to start a family soon. She kept telling herself she had to figure one out before she could move on the other. Pick a lane. Commit. Stop living between two futures.

She already knew both were true. She just couldn't get out of her own way.

When we explored this together, a few things came up:

1. She had an age in her head. A "by the time I'm X" deadline she had never actually chosen. It had just become fact.

2. She was waiting to hit a specific career milestone before she felt ready. A title, a project landed, something that would make a maternity leave feel justified.

3. Her team was performing well, her relationships with leadership were strong, and she was treating all of it like it could unravel the moment she looked away.

The shift: stop running on someone else's clock and figure out what she actually wanted the next twelve months to look like.

So here's what we actually did:

1. She had the conversation with her manager she'd been putting off for months. Her goals, her timeline, what support could look like. Turns out her manager was more on her side than she assumed.

2. She got specific about what staying visible actually meant during a transition, so she wasn't just operating on worst-case assumptions.

3. She built a twelve-month plan around what she actually wanted, not around who she thought she was supposed to be right now.

She stopped waiting for a future version of herself to decide. She decided. She walked out of that manager conversation with more support than she expected, and a plan she could actually live with.

That's what goal-centric coaching does.

Heidi Klotz is a leadership coach and fractional CHRO based in Montreal, Quebec. She is a Professional Goal-Centric Certified Coach (Concordia University) and holds the CHRP, SHRM-SCP, CCP and GRP designations. Before founding Heidi Klotz Coaching & Leadership, she spent more than 20 years in senior HR roles at Merck, Bristol-Myers Squibb, Mattel, Ardene and AtkinsRéalis, where she was Vice-President of Total Rewards. She coaches online in English and French.